Every time I try to join a server, it always says 'connecting' for about a good 10mins for ever server.

I tried to restart my computer etc.

halp pls

Make sure the system time on your computer is synchronized with a time server - the clock on your computer and the dedicated server you're trying to connect to may not differ too much.

http://fourdeltaone.net/viewtopic.php?f=30&t=11270 - for a tutorial on how to set it.

Get an error.

"An error occurred while Windows was synchronizing with time.windows.com this operation returned because the timeout period expired."

Download this and start it up, it will sync your time then, http://www.worldtimeserver.com/atomic-clock/atomic.exe