I dont know how it is in Germany but I think you can join the army training(after high school, or college for a few months) , you are bound to socialise there ,if you push your body to the limit you wont feel depressed

 

Don't quite think that's whats best for him, considering his past experiences at a strict/controlled facility (no details).

Yes it is , he"s 19 and socialy inactive, and its probably the only thing that can turn him around, who else will? his "moronic" brother or his mom?

>not being able to speak proper german

>being physically weak

>going to the military

wat

>not being able to speak proper german

>being physically weak

>going to the military

wat

well i didnt know he cant speak german well, but so what if he"s weak? the point of that(army training) is so he comes weak and returns strong.And i think he cant die from trying , i think...

>not being able to speak proper german

>being physically weak

>going to the military

wat

well i didnt know he cant speak german well, but so what if he"s weak? the point of that(army training) is so he comes weak and returns strong.And i think he cant die from trying , i think...

 

You can reach that same goal by going to the gym, or practising a sport.

>not being able to speak proper german

>being physically weak

>going to the military

wat

well i didnt know he cant speak german well, but so what if he"s weak? the point of that(army training) is so he comes weak and returns strong.And i think he cant die from trying , i think...

Lol, where do you live that you go to the army just to "train"? For that you should go to the gym, like I do.

In the 6 months you spend at the basic training in the army you get taught the basic skills needed for war.

And what is the point of going to army if you cant even do 10 pushups? You'll fail horribly even at the easiest physical activity such as the obstacle course.

Armies are generally for xenophobes who are good enough at just following the orders, not the creative, computer-oriented minds like nta's.

 

Normally people make friends through school as kids, and workplaces as adults. Since you haven't been formally schooled for quite long and you don't even have a work per se, it's rather best to start with a list of your interests and hobbies and socialize with the people you come across whose interests may overlap those of yours.

 

They can be anything such as working out (at gym), early morning walks, training & partaking in sports such as swimming, basketball/volleyball - your height's an advantage in those - (extremes ones even if those might excite you), language learning - why not join some German-learning course (even the US. has places where people of foreign descents can learn English. It is definitely going to benefit you in the short and long terms), finding a job at some IT-related place (just join up, no matter how small, if they're smart enough they will eventually know your place), earning some computers related certifications (like Microsoft ones, they're a sure shot to helping you in work placements), learning to drive (maybe even fly) and you get (rather already had) the idea.

I think NTA realized that a physical routine (however intense) and sleeping schedule is beneficial to him, so I think he's working on that. My suggestions from the previous post still stand +this.

go out and socialize dude if you cant have fun with your family or your "moronic brother" then go out find friends HAVE FUN.

You make it sound like it's the easiest task ever. Stop doing that.

I didnt say that its the easiest task you need some time to find friends

Lol, where do you live that you go to the army just to "train"? For that you should go to the gym, like I do.

In the 6 months you spend at the basic training in the army you get taught the basic skills needed for war.

And what is the point of going to army if you cant even do 10 pushups? You'll fail horribly even at the easiest physical activity such as the obstacle course.

its nothing gym, and you have to pay for gym , and dont be like lol army traning , in some other countries that"s obligatory , my PE teacher traveled in somethingstan(I really dont remember the name) where women trained for 12 and men 18 months in the army(obligatory shit)

Lol, where do you live that you go to the army just to "train"? For that you should go to the gym, like I do.

In the 6 months you spend at the basic training in the army you get taught the basic skills needed for war.

And what is the point of going to army if you cant even do 10 pushups? You'll fail horribly even at the easiest physical activity such as the obstacle course.

its nothing gym, and you have to pay for gym , and dont be like lol army traning , in some other countries that"s obligatory , my PE teacher traveled in somethingstan(I really dont remember the name) where women trained for 12 and men 18 months in the army(obligatory shit)

Who cares whether it's obligatory or not in some countries, if you're dutch/german/alotofothernationalities you don't join the army unless you want to.

Joining the army won't do shit, really.

Lol, where do you live that you go to the army just to "train"? For that you should go to the gym, like I do.

In the 6 months you spend at the basic training in the army you get taught the basic skills needed for war.

And what is the point of going to army if you cant even do 10 pushups? You'll fail horribly even at the easiest physical activity such as the obstacle course.

its nothing gym, and you have to pay for gym , and dont be like lol army traning , in some other countries that"s obligatory , my PE teacher traveled in somethingstan(I really dont remember the name) where women trained for 12 and men 18 months in the army(obligatory shit)

 

Only 12 year old kids are worried about paying for gym. It's not expensive, you can join a gym for like €20 a month (well, that depends on the area you live in, gyms in huge cities have more guests, and are more expensove to reduce crowd).

NTA doesn't have a job, but he could afford a mo thly fee for a gym.

 

Still, he could work out at home for a start, just to get enough condition before he starts going to gym.

Joining the army won't do shit, really.

oh yeah youre the joining the army expert! thats why youre totaly not talking out of your ass but you have comfirmed facts about that because you have done long and painfull studies confirming that joining the army won't do shit , if not your argument is invalid

Joining the army won't do shit, really.

oh yeah youre the joining the army expert! thats why youre totaly not talking out of your ass but you have comfirmed facts about that because you have done long and painfull studies confirming that joining the army won't do shit , if not your argument is invalid

>Implying you're the expert.

 

Look, I know a fuckload of people that joined the army, none of them have ever profited from it (except during the occasional drunken fight)

Joining the army won't do shit, really.

oh yeah youre the joining the army expert! thats why youre totaly not talking out of your ass but you have comfirmed facts about that because you have done long and painfull studies confirming that joining the army won't do shit , if not your argument is invalid

 

He meant it won't fo anything for NTA because he's not cut for army, you idiot.

 

And you done long and painfull studies confirming that joining the army has a positive effect for depressed, physically weak, and slightly anti-social men?

If not, your arguments are invalid.

 

FFS, the army would make him feel a lot worse, he obviously hates crowds and noises crowds make, plus the army has the worst noises in gun training. He would probably go FUBAR in a week, unless he does long mental preparation to go to army.

Joining the army won't do shit, really.

oh yeah youre the joining the army expert! thats why youre totaly not talking out of your ass but you have comfirmed facts about that because you have done long and painfull studies confirming that joining the army won't do shit , if not your argument is invalid

 

He meant it won't fo anything for NTA because he's not cut for army, you idiot.

 

And you done long and painfull studies confirming that joining the army has a positive effect for depressed, physically weak, and slightly anti-social men?

If not, your arguments are invalid.

 

FFS, the army would make him feel a lot worse, he obviously hates crowds and noises crowds make, plus the army has the worst noises in gun training. He would probably go FUBAR in a week, unless he does long mental preparation to go to army.

I guess so...

1- be friendly and kind to people

2- do not be depressed (trust me. in this life, there is always a bright side)

3- smile

4- YOU ALREADY HAVE US.

5- Stick to the truth, that works (People say the opposite, do not believe them. You will face lots of consequences.)

I think that would do NTAuthority. And ALWAYS STICK TO MANNERS WHEN MEETING STRANGERS.

Damn , this is turning dramatic right now ...

anyways my only advice

don't fear rejection,

I still have the problem of people rejecting me but i manged to find a couple of people to hangout with at the end

(i didn't read the whole thread)

Damn , this is turning dramatic right now

When NTA makes a thread about his real life, this is how it turns out to be. Every. Time.

NTA Gym fund.

Stupidest. Idea. Ever.

get a girlfriend

get a girlfriend

 

Yeah, because he just can snap out of a depression in a moment, get all the strenght to go out, see a girl he likes walking on the street, suddenly became super social, very good looking and charming, and then work her out in a few minutes so she falls in love with him and they instantly become boyfriend and girlfriend.

 

Yeah, it's that easy, I don't see a reason why wouldn't it be the way you say it.

get a girlfriend

Do you think it's that easy, especially for him?

get a girlfriend

Do you think it's that easy, especially for him?

Im also going to insult him guys just like you! you are a FAG!!!1 AAAAAAN GURZZZZZ ZE AA

 

Do you know where this shit is heading..... to another "NTA phase" discussion.

try being positive, nobody likes negative ppl

 

Most active topic: annoyances

 

to me it looks like u gotta improve on that

get a girlfriend

 

Yeah, because he just can snap out of a depression in a moment,

... ffs how is that going to make people better.

get a girlfriend

 

Yeah, because he just can snap out of a depression in a moment,

... ffs how is that going to make people better.

 

Don't ask me, my post was pure sarcasm.